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Therapy Thursday – Paradigm Shift: Relationships

Communication, Personal Growth, Relationships, Therapy ThursdayBy Sheli DodsonApril 6, 2023Leave a comment

Ken and I had spent several sessions working on changing the paradigm in my mind about how women and men should relate to each other ~ it is not about a struggle for power- it is about resolving conflicts together. In a healthy relationship: The partners value each other Fear and cynicism do not dictate…

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Feel Empowered!

Attitude & Gratitude, Personal GrowthBy Sheli DodsonJune 20, 20211 Comment

Feel empowered by naming the fear behind a negative emotion. Simple steps to stop making decisions from fear, and a video worth watching.

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Therapy Thursday – Acceptance

Personal Growth, Relationships, Therapy ThursdayBy Sheli DodsonJune 17, 2021Leave a comment

Acceptance. Personal growth is HARD- especially when we fight it. My seven take-aways from a session spent on doing the acceptance work.

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The Four Horsemen

Communication, Personal Growth, RelationshipsBy Sheli DodsonJune 15, 20211 Comment

Image by Wolfgang Eckert from Pixabay Let’s start with a moment of self-reflection.  This is not about anyone else or their behavior– this is about YOU.  Mirror, Mirror on the wall Tell me, tell me true… Which of these awful relationship habits are the ones I do? Criticism Stonewalling Defensiveness Contempt hurts relationships. Criticism Criticism…

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Therapy Thursday – Relationships, part 2

Personal Growth, Relationships, Therapy ThursdayBy Sheli DodsonJune 10, 2021Leave a comment

Session 9: My Role in Relationships Sigh…. the eternal task of self-reflection.  In this session, we focused on my role in relationships.  I have always been independent and strong-willed, and disinclined to rely on a partner for much of anything, preferring to problem-solve on my own. (Is it because I have a fear of appearing…

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The Power of Grace

Communication, Personal Growth, RelationshipsBy Sheli DodsonJune 8, 20211 Comment

I am not a perfect person. Far from it. The Power of Grace: how I’m learning to stop being critical of myself and others- not perfect, but progressing.

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