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The Four Horsemen

Communication, Personal Growth, RelationshipsBy Sheli DodsonJune 15, 20211 Comment

Image by Wolfgang Eckert from Pixabay Let’s start with a moment of self-reflection.  This is not about anyone else or their behavior– this is about YOU.  Mirror, Mirror on the wall Tell me, tell me true… Which of these awful relationship habits are the ones I do? Criticism Stonewalling Defensiveness Contempt hurts relationships. Criticism Criticism…

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