When You Need Help, Not Hype

 "I’m tired of pretending I have it all together."
"If anyone looks too closely, they’ll see that I am lonely, scared, and exhausted."
"I feel like I have to hide who I really am."
"I feel alone, even though there are people all around me."
"I'm overwhelmed. My house and life are out of control."
"I need help. Trying to do this alone isn't working."
"I want to run away from my life. Vacations are how I (temporarily) escape."

If you’ve always been known as strong, optimistic and unstoppable, you probably won’t admit that you are exhausted. Exhausted from trying to be all things to all people, all the time. 

Even the strong need support sometimes. The optimistic need encouragement, and the unstoppable need a break.

You know your life need to change, but you’re overwhelmed with how or where to start.

Desiderata Consulting is here to help. Whether you need strategic life transformation or emotional restoration, we offer two distinct paths forward.
It’s not too late to transform your life. Choose the approach that resonates with your journey—intensive coaching programs or therapeutic healing sessions.

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The Four Pillars of Desiderata Consulting

Desiderata is Latin for ‘things desired’.  It is also the name of a 1927 prose poem by Max Ehrmann, an American writer. Desiderata Consulting was formed to guide you towards more joy in your life.

At Desiderata Consulting, I am committed to guiding individuals on their journey to becoming their best selves. When you invite me to your home as your live-in life coach, you’re not just getting a friend and mentor—you’re gaining a partner and coach who is dedicated to helping you elevate your quality of life in a way that encourages lasting change. Desiderata Consulting focuses on the following areas to guide us as we work together to enhance your life:

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Authenticity and Self-Awareness

True transformation starts with self-acceptance. I believe in the power of authenticity and will encourage you to embrace your true self. Gain deeper self-awareness, understand your strengths and areas for growth, and learn to live more authentically through our work together.

Health and Well-Being

I offer two complementary paths to transformation. Through immersive coaching experiences, you'll integrate exercise, nutrition, and faith into your daily routine to nurture your body, mind, and spirit using a holistic approach. Through Listening Splankna sessions, you'll experience emotional restoration and healing work focused specifically on your inner well-being. Whether you choose comprehensive coaching or targeted emotional support, you'll enhance your resilience, spiritual connection, and relationships for a balanced and fulfilling life.

Balance and Order

Balance is essential for joy, helping you create harmony between personal, professional, and social responsibilities by establishing priorities within healthy boundaries. This balance extends beyond your daily routines and into your living spaces. An orderly home not only reflects this balance but also contributes significantly to your overall well-being, reducing stress, improving focus, and promoting better sleep and healthier habits. Through Immersive Coaching Experiences, you'll actively transform your home environment into a welcoming respite that rejuvenates you in mind, body, and spirit- making your home a physical representation of the balance you seek. Through Listening Splankna sessions, you'll address emotional blocks that may be preventing you from creating and maintaining the peaceful, organized environment you desire.

Community and Connection

Healthy human connection is the cornerstone of human existence. Healthy relationships foster belonging and support. You have two powerful ways to strengthen these connections and create a positive social network. Immersive Coaching Experiences provide personalized, in-the-moment guidance to improve your communication skills, strengthen relationships, and establish healthy boundaries with confidence. Listening Splankna sessions help you heal emotional wounds that may be sabotaging your ability to connect deeply with others. Both approaches help you build a supportive community network, ensuring you develop stronger personal relationships and a vibrant, connected life.
I invite you to experience profound transformation and life-changing results through my comprehensive coaching services.
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Experience Transformational Change

Resilience and Adaptability

Life is full of challenges and changes. Gain the confidence and resilience to face life’s challenges head-on. With practical tools and personalized support, you’ll learn to adapt to change, recover from setbacks, and move forward with clarity and strength—no matter what life throws your way.

Purpose and Passion

Living a fulfilling life means connecting with your passions and purpose. I help you uncover what truly drives you, aligning your daily actions with your core values and long-term goals. Together, we’ll ignite your passions and create a roadmap to a purpose-driven life.

Increased Integrity and Accountability

Strengthen your ability to lead a life that reflects your core values so you can move forward with confidence, clarity, and self-respect. Whether you're navigating high-stakes leadership, managing complex relationships, or seeking greater fulfillment, you'll gain the tools and insight to lead with integrity from the inside out.

Deepen Emotional Intelligence and Empathy

Understanding and managing emotions are key to building healthy relationships and achieving personal well-being. We’ll focus on enhancing your emotional intelligence and empathy, enabling you to connect deeply with others and navigate your emotional landscape with skill and insight.

Continued Growth and Learning

Personal growth is a lifelong journey. You’ll cultivate a mindset of continuous learning and self-improvement, encouraging you to seek out new experiences and challenges. I’ll provide you with the support and guidance needed to keep evolving and reaching new heights.

Empowerment and Leadership

Everyone has the potential to be a leader in their own life. You will be empowered to take charge of your destiny, developing the leadership qualities necessary to influence your own path and inspire those around you. My coaching nurtures your confidence and decision-making abilities.
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How things are going to change for you

Increased Accountability

Stay on track with commitments and progress through regular check-ins and support.

Greater Self-Confidence

Build belief in personal abilities and potential, leading to more confident decision-making.

Stronger Relationships

Enhance communication and relationship-building skills for more meaningful connections.

Healthier Lifestyle

Develop sustainable habits for improved physical health through exercise and nutrition.

Improved Goal Setting

You'll set clear, actionable, and realistic goals for personal growth.

Enhanced Self-Awareness

Clients will gain a deeper understanding of their strengths, weaknesses, and core values.

Increased Joy and Fulfillment

Achieve a greater sense of satisfaction and contentment in life.
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Transformational Living Facilitator

Sheli Dodson

Part Cheerleader, Part Drill Sergeant

As a live-in life coach, I provide support, structure, guidance and direction to people who want transformative changes in their lives.

My mission is to support you in creating a life where you can thrive in every area. Through personalized coaching sessions, practical strategies, and unwavering support, I will help you lead a more fulfilling, joyous life.

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Sheli - relaxed & casual
About Sheli Dodson – life coach blending grit, grace, and wisdom
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Coaching & Care Programs

Desiderata Consulting offers three transformative approaches to meet you wherever you are in your journey: Immersive Coaching Experiences (ICE), SPARK virtual coaching, and Listening Splankna sessions.

Immersive Coaching Experiences provide comprehensive live-in support where I reside with you, offering real-time guidance while integrating exercise, nutrition, and faith into your daily routine for complete life transformation.

SPARK offers a dynamic six-week virtual program combining group calls, personalized coaching sessions, and practical exercises for those who need structured flexibility in their transformation journey.

Listening Splankna sessions provide gentle emotional restoration through therapeutic healing work, perfect for addressing internal barriers and emotional blocks that may be preventing your growth.

Whether you need intensive immersion (ICE), flexible structure (SPARK), or focused healing (Splankna), you’ll develop the tools to create a balanced, fulfilling life that transforms every aspect of your well-being.

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Frequently Asked Questions

“Desiderata is Latin for  “things desired“.  It is also the name of a 1927 prose poem by Max Ehrmann, an American writer. You can see the poem here.

A live-in life coach is a professional who resides with a client for a designated period, typically ranging from a few weeks to several months. This arrangement allows for intensive, immersive coaching tailored to the client’s daily life. Live-in life coaches provide constant support, guidance, and accountability, helping clients implement and sustain positive changes in real-time. This immersive approach allows the coach to gain a deep understanding of your daily routines, habits, and challenges, enabling them to offer real-time feedback and guidance. 

By living alongside you, a live-in life coach can address various aspects of your life in a holistic and integrated manner, fostering comprehensive personal transformation.

  • Real-Time Support and Accountability: Continuous presence ensures constant support and motivation, helping you stay on track with your goals.
  • Personalized Guidance: Real-time insights and tailored strategies based on your daily life and specific needs.
  • Holistic Approach: Integrated coaching that addresses physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being.
  • Improved Relationships: Enhanced communication skills and stronger connections with others through daily interactions and guidance.
  • Immediate Feedback: Instant feedback and adjustments to habits and behaviors, leading to quicker and more effective results.

For individuals, I offer a six-week virtual coaching program called SPARK, as well as three types of Immersive Coaching Experiences (ICE). ICE programs are two weeks long (SHIFT), four weeks long (EVOLVE) or six weeks long (THRIVE).

As a client, you will be expected to establish and adhere to a program that focuses on overall health, to include faith/spiritual practices, physical exercise,

If you determine that a live-in life coaching experience is the best option for you, you’ll choose either a 2-week, 4-week or 6-week program.  I’ll need a private bedroom and access to common living spaces (kitchen, bathroom, laundry, etc.).

When I say Immersive Coaching Experience, that’s exactly what you get. This is a LIVE-IN support program.
I’m not on Zoom or FaceTime talking to you about what you’re dealing with; I’m right there- BY YOUR SIDE, walking with you through the challenges and changes, providing encouragement and guidance to you as you discover, cultivate, and embrace living an authentic life.

Each Immersive Coaching Experience, is personalized. On our call, we will:

  1. Focus on the specific areas of your life where you need help and support
  2. Discuss and determine the best action plan to help get you started, and
  3. Establish timelines to begin making the changes you seek.

If you decide to proceed with the ICE (Immersive Coaching Experience), we will finalize details after a 48-hour waiting period to ensure your commitment to change is not pressured or rushed. 

Life is a journey, and there *will* be twists, turns and challenges.   I provide ongoing support for an additional 6 months after your ICE ends by making myself available via Skype, Zoom, GoogleMeet, FaceTime, WhatsApp or telephone to support, encourage and lend a listening ear.  I’ll also make sure to provide you any resources I have available that are appropriate for your needs.

Energy psychology utilizes the same meridian lines as chiropractic and acupuncture. The concept is that energy flows through these meridian lines, and disruptions in this flow can cause mental, emotional, or physical symptoms. By understanding these meridian lines, energy psychology aims to restore energy flow and alleviate mental and emotional symptoms.

Splankna is a Christian-based, mind-body protocol designed for emotional freedom. By incorporating techniques such as muscle testing, thought field therapy, EMDR, neuro-emotional technique, and prayer, Splankna targets the subconscious roots of symptoms. This approach facilitates the identification and release of “stuck” emotional energy and thought patterns resulting from past traumas.

Disclaimer: Splankna falls under the category of Complementary and Alternative Medicine (CAM) and, as such, cannot claim to “cure” any diagnosable (DSM) illness. The only permissible claim for practitioners is that Splankna is utilized for stress relief, spiritual growth, and within the context of Life Coaching (where applicable). According to FTC guidelines, no claims can be made that Splankna will heal or change you.

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